Monday, April 22, 2013

My Speech

I posted last week about about my sister's upcoming wedding.  Well it that happened over the weekend and it was amazing.  I can say that it was a wonderful time; she looked beautiful and everyone had a great time.  Since I shared Megan's speech at my wedding last week, I wanted to share mine here as well.  Here goes:


Good evening everyone.  For those of you that don’t know me, my name is Me-Me and I'm Megan's older sister.  Megan has instructed me- literally under penalty of death that I have to keep this speech PG rated and not embarrass her... So, I guess that means that this is the end of my speech. Thanks for listening... 


Megan, in all honesty, a few minutes on this special day isn't enough time to describe what you mean to me and so many people in this room, but I will try.

As everyone knows, you have a loving spirit and your kindness and beauty can light up any room; you have truly outdone yourself tonight.  You look amazing and I know you well enough to say that your happiness is genuine and that you’re enjoying every moment of this special day.


To most people, you become like a little sister, perhaps one that they never wanted, but that their life wouldn't be complete without.  

One of your best qualities is that you take the time to celebrate with everyone in the good times- you were there for me when I got married and for the birth of my children…

Oh wait… actually; do you remember that you missed Cullen's birth by minutes????  Why was that again??

 Oh right, because while I laid there suffering, you had been stuffing your face with Oreos and Reese’s peanut butter cups and then YOU needed to leave because you had to get some "rest.”

But you are 100% committed to everyone during the worst of times; and we all know how you love a good drama, the more dysfunctional the better; so bring it on people!  But I can also say that you never judge anyone; you only offer strength, support and love at a time when people need it the most.

As kids, Megan and I were pretty much inseparable and we always managed to keep each other laughing and during these moments our family was either laughing with us… or in some cases at us.  To this day, one of our most ridiculous times spent together was a trip we took to a boarding kennel to pick up our family dog, Murphy.  As soon as the people at the kennel brought out “Murphy” we knew that this wasn’t our dog.  This dog was beautiful… and VERY well behaved.  We tried to tell them it wasn’t our dog, but they insisted it was and because I was only 16 and Megan was 13, we did what any stupid kids would: we took the dog.  And I mean WE TOOK THE DOG.  We drove that beautiful dog home, we brought it inside… the dog practically joined the family.  But a few hours later the kennel called.  The owners of the beautiful dog were there and were refusing to take our dumb dog, so we had to return our new family member.  This has since become one of my Dad’s favorite stories to tell, but what he probably holds out on is that HE was one of the people who were trying to convince us we were crazy; he even rationalized that the reason Murphy’s fur had totally changed colors was because it was summer time and she had been outside a lot…

Megan, thank you for sharing the past 27 years with me; Mom, Dad, Geb and I have loved you so much and for so long and we are happy to welcome Joe into our lives and family.

And Joe, I’ve never really given you any compliments… and I’m not about to start now!  In all seriousness, you’re perfect for my sister; you make her happy and I can tell that the love you two share is real and will carry you through the highs and lows of the life that you’re building together.

As I watch you two create your family, I am inspired by how blessed you both are.  Joseph and Zeta are incredibly lucky to have supportive loving parents who are dedicated to giving them the best life possible. 

My wishes for Megan and Joe are that they have a continued loving friendship and partnership and that they remember two keys to a successful marriage: a good sense of humor and a short memory.  May you love one another and stand together today and always.

... and in case you're wondering, here's the proof:






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